The one who criticizes another is guilty of the very same thing. God looks not only at the act, He looks at the possibility. We do not believe the statements of the Bible to begin with. For instance, do we believe this statement, that the things we criticize in others we are guilty of ourselves? The reason we see hypocrisy and fraud and unreality in others is because they are all in our own hearts. The great characteristic of a saint is humility - Yes, all those things and other evils would have been manifested in me but for the grace of God, therefore I have no right to judge.
We have judged our fellow men as sinners; if God should judge us like that we would be in hell. God judges us through the marvellous Atonement of Jesus Christ.
This is bits and pieces taken from today's devotional that I am following. I find myself constantly in the pitfalls of judgement. Being aware of our own heart and putting it up and out and in motion while we measure another's actions or words will always allow us to be discriminant and make righteous decisions with discernment. A long sentence, but reading and rereading, it makes perfect sense to me.